Hwasin: Controller of the Heart
Generation gap.
Difference in the thought process.
In order to have an honest conversation with those from very different generations
open up your hearts to one another.
Over ten thousand people will participate in a survey every week
to answer everyday life questions.
By using the answers received from the surveys as the basis of a foundation
a whole nation of people will get an opportunity to voice their opinion.
Anytime and anywhere, through the use of websites and smartphone applications
anyone can participate in the voting process.
Through an easy and diverse method on the official homepage
real opinions of the citizens, ranging from their teens to fifties, will be known.
A unique method of closing the gap between all generations.
Please win over each other's hearts along with our show, Hwasin.
[Tuesday nights are turning into a riot!]
[Kang Hye Jung and Park Ji Young: Brutally honest actresses/wives.]
[Jeong Man Shik and Hong Suk Chun: An insightful charismatic battle!]
[The goofballs' nonstop chatter continues on...]
[Is this Kim Hee Sun's way of surviving through a variety show?]
[A new Tuesday variety talk show that remains brutally honest!]
[Discovery of a new issue.]
[Difficult situations found while out to dinner with coworkers.]
[A new employee's tear-inducing misery due to the interest of their seniors.]
The people labeled as 'Seniors'
Why are they so senseless?
Requests made by the seniors that we'd like nothing more than to refuse...
Just what could be some of those situations?
[Difficult to refuse, yet difficult to pretend to like...]
[Seniors are trying to help, but Juniors only feel burdened by it.]
They go overboard with the compliments
so, if anything, it puts the person in a difficult position with their colleagues.
There were so many things I was made to feel bad about. For example...
The first time I was asked to do a segment called, 'Unattained High' during a gag concert.
'This is what I'm talking about. What are all you guys doing?'
'This is the kind of stuff you guys need to be doing!'
'Are you guys all idiots or something? You guys all need to step up!'
'You need to watch this guy, and learn a thing or two from him!'
I'm sure you'll get hated for all that.
- You're finished then. You're over! - Oh my goodness...
The last thing one of the seniors who just got blasted said to me...
'You must be happy.'
Saying it very sarcastically, and twisting it in.
[Dong Yup with a similar situation?]
The producer says to us...
'Dong Yup is doing so well and writing out his own scripts and all...'
You did do very well in the beginning.
'Don't be so lazy just because you're seniors, and work harder like he does!'
That's what he said to everyone.
And even though I know he was joking, this is what Senior Seo Sae Won says...
'Guys, guys. Everyone gather around!'
[Gathers all the colleagues in the area around him.]
'Let's all see what he does, and learn from him!'
[Making him feel burdened 100%!]
'Dong Yup is filming right now! Everyone come over here!'
When he said that to me, in front of all the cameras...
- All the seniors, in a joking manner... - Yes, I'm sure they were joking.
But back at that time, I didn't know they were just joking.
So I just froze in my spot.
Since the background behind me was the moving train
the scenery outside the window kept changing.
So there's no room for any outtakes in the middle of that.
So if you make even one single mistake, you have to start all over from the beginning.
At that time, I really... I really just wanted to die.
I felt so humiliated, but later on, they told me they did it to help me.
[The antagonizing was done to help him learn as an artist.]
- Did you pull it off without any mistakes? - Because of what they did...
I did do it well. I really pulled it off.
I didn't even make a single mistake, and I really did a good job.
I wonder if that's partly why you are still here as you are right now.
That was so mechanical how you ended it.
Now, the answer!
[Overabundant compliments from a senior inevitably can lead to being bullied.]
- That answer came in at sixth place. - Oh, there it is.
Jong Min, do you have experience like that, being a singer yourself?
Rather than by my seniors as a singer, it's more my seniors as the variety actor...
[Jong Min's had similar experiences from the seniors in the variety shows?]
- And Boom lip synched something. - He's very good at lip synching.
- He's extremely good at lip synching. - Yes, he is very good.
And I've never lip synched before. I didn't even know the lyrics!
Everyone knows Ho Dong...
And he started saying
that I was really great at lip synching.
He said that I could blow anyone out of the water with my skills.
He was making me feel extremely burdened.
Whenever I'm on the show, I have a tendency to get surprised easily.
'Excuse me?' Like that.
So those are the times you sputter?
I totally ruined the whole atmosphere.
The reason being, I had no choice but to do it.
I couldn't move my lips in sync.
Stand up, stand up... Why don't you get up and try it?
- You know this song! - Yes, I know this song.
[Will he be able to pull it off this time?]
Nice!
[Plenty of emotion!]
[Plenty of emotion in the performance.]
[Strangely fascinating lip synching.]
[The lip synch method of someone who's been in the business for 13 years.]
[1. Showing much of his teeth as he can.]
[2. Putting as much strain in his mouth as he can.]
[Punished]
Why how a singer be so bad at lip synching?
Jun Hyun Moo can be very greedy over things like this.
No, I'm not.
- Let us see it. - You can't refuse his request.
Let's see you lip synching to a song you know very well.
A song I'm familiar with?
A song that you know... Kim Jae Won's 'Like Me.'
Kim Yeon Woo's 'Like Me.'
There he goes. He's getting in the mood.
Why is it only the background music?
I'm to lip sync the background music?
You should've pretended you were playing the piano.
[Had to scramble to find the song he chose to be played...]
Do I look like Nam Bo Young to you?
This is why freelancing is so hard!
But how am I supposed to lip sync along with the background music?
- We've all done it in the past! - This is the stuff you have to do!
Play the music for him one more time.
When it comes to pulling off lip synching, you have to get the motion into it too.
That's called hand synching, isn't it?
[Newly invented background music lip sync.]
- Just try it! - See? You're playing the piano now.
- You have to learn to go with the flow. - Here's the piano.
[Totally serious.]
My stomach...
Now you have to get the head movement in there too.
[The sound flowing from the tips of his fingertips...]
- You're doing great. - You can't smile. You have to be serious.
[Straight-faced.]
We can even sell him at the electronics store with how instrumental he is.
Okay, start singing now.
[Beads of sweat covering his face.]
There are two thing he'd ever sweat over.
It's either when he's feeling awkward or when things aren't going his way.
That would be number two!
Number two.
There's something that was once on a commercial too.
- The hobby of the person was... - Ah, the stress of one's hobbies?
Soccer. The woman didn't even play, but she was forced to come and cheer.
- But you really like soccer. - I used to, but I started hating it then.
It's no longer enjoyable then, since it's being forced upon him.
I had to be there by six AM and be ready. And it was by the Han River.
And we didn't all live in Seoul either. For those who lived in Suwon
they practically had to come the night before and spend the night by the Han River.
Since we couldn't be late.
As you probably all know, being late meant...
- Back in the day... - Even though it's not like that now.
Because of situations like that, some were able to build a deeper bond.
There are a lot of instances where we're forced to like a hobby our seniors like.
Even some things we've never had any experience in...
- I remember having to hike. - There are a lot of people who hate fishing.
I remember getting a call once.
'I'm going to go somewhere overnight, do you have anything going on?'
That's the question he asked me.
When asked that, there's nothing you can say.
- You have no choice but to go along. - That's true.
Whatever their hobby is.
Asking to do something on days off?
There was an announcer who was my senior
and he wanted me to take a flower arranging class with him.
Flower arranging?
He asked me to do that with him
and I asked how I can be a florist with this face of mine.
- Having to arrange it... - Having to arrange all the flowers...
- So I was made uncomfortable. - But if you don't do it...
- If I don't, they get annoyed. - It's a very sticky situation.
Wanting to learn something together. Wanting to go away on a trip together.
- Wanting to go away together? - Wanting to rent a vacation house together.
- Suggesting a family vacation getaway. - That's right. A family trip.
And our wives are made to feel uncomfortable themselves.
It's extremely uncomfortable!
Because wives are put into these situations they can't decline either.
A couple get-together, but backing out suddenly?
You really don't like hanging out as a couple, do you?
- He really hates couple get-togethers! - How do you hate them so much?
Isn't it nice to hang out as a couple?
Hanging out as a couple is really nice, but it's uncomfortable with your elders.
I talk to Dong Yup on the phone once in a while.
When I say, 'How about us couples...' He screams out, 'No!'
'No!'
It's because I want to be alone with her.
That could be true.
What a relief that I at least thought of that response.
I'd just rather be at the office working on the weekends.
- Really? - It's just too difficult.
Shall we check in on the answer?
[They think we're really close...]
[They always want to hang out together on the weekends!]
[First place answer for those surveyed in their 20s, 30s, and 40s!]
We got the right answer!
How many is that? How many age groups is that?
[An abundance of answers!]
- Your time is already over. - We have to do it again!
[We'll do that during one of the special episodes.]
If you look at it, in some ways, during your 30s and 40s...
Whether you can move up or not, that fate depends on your boss.
The truth is, because of that...
- You end up going. - You have to go.
The thing I'm curious about right now is
I've made a move into variety shows after being an actress.
And the two of you started as singers.
For example, when Jong Shin asks to hang out on the weekend
and when Dong Yup asks me to hang out on the weekend
who am I supposed to hang out with?
When the senior singer and the variety show senior both ask you?
- That's a tough one. - Jong Min, which one would you...
I'd choose the variety show without a doubt.
- But when you're a singer... - But I work more in variety these days.
Hee Sun, the thing you got wrong is...
You just compared Jong Shin and I in that example...
- But Jong Shin is in variety land too. - Yes, I'm more variety lately.
And if I was in that situation, and I had to choose between the two...
- I'd rather... - Why?
In some ways
your comedian seniors can make you feel uncomfortable the more you get to know them.
- Ah, I see what you're saying. - Yes, that could happen.
There's no competition between Su Geun and I.
- He's like my older brother... - You find Dong Yup uncomfortable?
What I'm saying is...
What? What did you say?
- Su Geun... - Why are you suddenly lying?
Look at her breaking out in a lie. She's really going all out.
She thinks she's above me right now.
- She really is reaching. - Because she's being so blunt...
Has she always been like that?
She becomes very greedy on the variety shows.
Since Hee Sun found out she was going to be our co-host
she's been texting and calling us often.
That's when I realized that she must not have any friends.
Excuse me, but you and Kim Hee Sun call and text each other?
- Of course. - What about us then?
- You never texted us before. - What about us?
I gave you my number yesterday.
She gave you her number?
- Yesterday? - Did you get any texts yesterday?
- Yes. - Today's the first time I've ever met you.
Today's the first time I've ever met you.
What an absurd thing to say.
You think you can just say anything when you're on the variety show?
You have to know your limits.
I think she thinks she can do and say whatever she wants.
Why don't you just write a drama instead.
I was really shocked thinking you really got her phone number.
And I got confused.
You think we're just going to accept whatever you say?
She really is throwing them out there!
- I'm sorry. - But she was really lively about it.
She was so serious just now when she apologized about it.
When she sends her texts, they're so mannerly and sweet.
- Really? - Yeah.
That's why I always end up responding to her.
Because I don't normally respond to people's texts.
Her texts are full of cute emoticons.
- You don't even respond to your own wife? - That's right.
I only send a one word response to my wife.
'Yeah.'
- That's all I say to her. - I get long messages from him.
Long messages?
You really are just throwing it all out there, aren't you?
She really is throwing it all out there!
[Unpredictable as to when and where things are going to get thrown out.]
[Hee Sun's straight throws that are unpredictable in nature.]
She really is unpredictable.
[Is she being for real?]
I'm really good with the picture applications.
- You're so awful! - When I get pictures...
I'll take a good picture we're both in and edit it.
He's very good with Photoshop.
- Yes, I'll just do it from my phone. - So I gave him all the pictures in my album.
She sent me ten pictures!
- So you could Photoshop it for her? - Even pictures that you weren't in?
[Not even pictures that they took together.]
I didn't send him ten pictures! He's really joking!
Even shots that are like...
[A variety of self-portrait shots.]
I edited all those pictures and sent them back to her.
[Hee Sun's pictures Jong Shin edited.]
Jong Shin asked me this once...
'If you have any pictures, will you send me a few?'
'I'll Photoshop them and send them back to you.'
All the men are alike.
Do you really think I just sent him the pictures for no reason?
That's how we got comfortable with each other right away.
- With her personality too... - Is she more comfortable than Go Hyun Jung?
[A straight shot.]
Why don't you give us a comparison?
Go Hyun Jung is a friend of mine.
But you told me that you felt more comfortable with me.
- Don't tell us two different stories. - You really are throwing them out there!
Whatever image you have gets shattered on variety shows.
I've never photoshopped any pictures for Go Hyun Jung.
[His hands having become very modest.]
We got some good information right here.
- Hyun Jung, I miss you. - Forget it.
Why are you telling me to forget it?
Then I guess with the teenagers, it's regarding their seniors?
- Seniors at their school... - School seniors.
Someone I never used to be close with before approached me...
'Hey, what happened to that?'
And started asking me a bunch of personal questions like that.
- 'What does your father do?' - 'Do you have a girlfriend?'
- 'Do you have a boyfriend?' - 'How big is your house?'
- 'Do you have a sister?' - 'What does your family do?'
Don't you think those questions are being asked because they want to be friends?
Yes, they want to be friends with their juniors.
[The problem is, they're rushing it too much.]
- It makes them feel burdened. - That's right, that's right.
And there are some people who, on either their blogs or homepages
ask why the friend request they sent isn't being accepted.
And in cases with some of the girls...
'Why didn't you press the like button when I uploaded the recent picture?'
There are people who even says things like that.
How do you know all that?
Half my life revolves around social networking.
That's why I know about those things very well.
I'm one of Jun Hyun Moo's followers. I follow his blogs.
And out of all my friends online, he talks about himself the most.
Everyday he's uploading tweets about himself nonstop.
- He's always boasting about himself. - How shameless are you?
So this is how you really are?
If there's any news that any of you need to get the word out on
just let Hyun Moo know about it.
If you just let Hyun Moo know about anything you need others to know about...
[Wanting to know everything about their personal life.]
[First place answer amongst the teens!]
Family life, and dating life...
Those seniors that wants to know everything about your personal life.
I think it's like that with the teenagers.
I think there are some seniors who are serious about knowing all that.
Knowing those details about a person is the only way to get close.
They're trying too hard to get to know the person quickly.
But the older the person gets, sharing things like that...
- That could be good. - It can be looked on as a good thing.
As an adult, we feel we can only become close once we get to know all that.
- But protecting those details these days... - It would be better to protect that.
- Now we only have... - How about a small hint?
Yes, it's too hard.
Actually, is there going to be a dinner after we're done filming today?
I can join you for a drink.
After we're done with dinner, and if everyone agrees...
Are we planning on second round too?
- Sure, I could do that. - And a third round?
- Sure, I can go. - Are you buying?
- Is this a hint? - What is this?
- It was a hint. - You weren't really asking us?
I thought she was being serious!
You should've known that was a hint!
You're all sitting there agreeing to dinner and everything.
Why did you have to be so blatant about wanting to go?
They didn't even realize it was a hint
and just started agreeing and saying they'll go.
What was that? A question? Acting?
Is it because I'm too good of an actress?
When you started talking about going for the third round...
- Never-ending... - The never-ending...
Drinking that knows no end.
- That's right. - Dragging the people around.
And even asking them to follow along to their house.
[Dong Yup's opinion is asking the others to come over to their house.]
If it's not that, inviting themselves over to your house.
[Time to check the answer!]
[A thorough oral cleaning.]
You looked so hideous.
Wow... So hideous.
Did you see that from the side?
I usually... If I do it once, I know how to play it up.
And...
That gust of wind really must be strong.
Right? Isn't the wind strong?
It's not that bad. It really isn't that awful.
But we're all acting to make it seem harsher than it really is.
Didn't you see this one acting crazy when he wasn't even blasted earlier?
Kim Hee Sun's is the type of woman who'll let the wind blast her if we asked.
[Requesting her to reenact a scene from a commercial.]
Okay, we'll do it from here.
One, two, three.
[So pretty!]
- That's the perfect distance. - Yes, it's good.
[Having fun with it, aren't you?]
If by any chance, because of this...
if I get a commercial offer, then the two, four, six, seven of us...
- What are you doing? - I'll split the money seven ways.
Ready, go.
[A proper goddess pose with the wind.]
[Look at these men. They're out of their minds...]
[The winds that caresses these ladies' hair really is different than any other wind!]
[The even stronger ruler of hearts is on the way!]
[It can't get any more real than this!]
[Why is she crying?]
[Revealing their know-how to everyone!]
[An even hotter talk show starts now!]
There are people you'll find if you're in the corporate world...
[What's the number one answer of those surveyed in their 50s?]
When you and your colleagues are having a gathering by yourselves
a manager or team leader will suddenly come up to the group
- and it brings down the mood. - That's right.
When you and your friends get together to have some fun...
Then the position changes.
When your boss joins the group, then even the topic of conversation changes.
- You can't say anything personal. - No, you can't.
But it's tolerable if they offer to take care of the tab.
[I disagree.]
They should definitely take care of the tab!
They don't always pay, but add on to the tab if anything.
They use an excuse of taking care of the tab to join.
They bring out the liquor they bought duty free.
If they take care of the tab, do you like for them to come?
I don't like it. I prefer to pay the tab myself...
I don't want them to come.
As for me, if they're going to pay, I'd love or them to come.
So you prefer it?
I agree. It's too uncomfortable.
Shall we check the answer?
[Not having any sense and butting in when juniors want to hang out by themselves.]
[First place answer for those surveyed in their 50s.]
When people makes plans to get together to relieve some stress
and the boss invites themself along without any sense.
So people in their 50s don't even want the boss to come along?
I remember once, there were about ten of us
who were out to dinner after shooting a music video.
And out of drunkeness, I called and asked where they were.
All my juniors were out having dinner, and I went.
[Not having had enough sense to butt out.]
And on my way home, I sent them texts.
And they would have to respond to that.
If they don't respond, that could make you feel annoyed.
[They have to send a respond that's longer in length the once received.]
What is the thing you hate to hear the most when you're out drinking?
Anyone who tries to give you a life lesson or advice.
Telling you how you should live and such?
Telling you what you should do.
That's true, that's true.
As for me, I appreciate a good advice, but I hate when people repeat things.
It's not like I can tell them they already said that.
You can't say, 'You already said that.'
But say, 'When you said that to me earlier, I was really touched by it.'
[The words that are to become the flesh and blood of Dong Yup.]
[Getting ready to talk]
You know before...
- Dong Yup, you said it to Jong Shin, right? - What did he say?
Since he says the same thing every week...
Dong Yup said to Jong Shin, 'You already said that last week.'
[She really is throwing it out there.]
We're losing to her right now.
[A senior who stays until the end at the subordinate's gathering.]
[A senior who calls to ask to hang out on the weekends.]
[Senior who wants to know everything about your personal life.]
Pull it out of your bag.
Let's not become seniors who are as senseless as these people.
[We are all someone's senior.]
[From a cute child actress to an explosive adult actress!]
[Kang Hye Jung]
[A diverse actor with a diverse range of charisma.]
[Jeong Man Shik]
[A relationship expert with nonstop snappy remarks.]
[Hong Suk Chun]
[Full of sweet charisma.]
[Park Ji Young]
[Kim Hee Sun, you're in for it today!]
[Kwang Hee]
Hwasin, what could be the next question?
[A question discovered...]
[Today's stage.]
[A health club.]
This is the place where I started working out at.
I know I made you a promise.
I'm going to work out really hard, and show you an awesome body this summer.
But anyway, what brings you all the way here?
The truth is...
There's something I need to tell you.
How important is it that you felt the need to come see me here?
The truth is, I never told my parents that you and I were dating.
I don't know how you feel about hearing something like this...
Are you listening to me right now?
Huh?
Of course, I'm listening. Tell me. What is it?
So...
My dad keeps telling me to go study abroad.
Honey, what are you looking at?
[He's looking at her...]
Are you staring at her?
No, I'm not staring at her. Why would I be staring at her?
I know you just said he wants to send you off to study abroad?
I'm jealous.
You've lost your mind!
What is it that you're jealous of? You don't care if you never see me again?
No...
What?
Seriously... You're staring at her right now, aren't you!
You are sickening! Don't even think about seeing me again!
Hye Jung...
Hye Jung!
- You came! - Yeah, I'm here.
[Another couple over here?]
I've gotten better, haven't I?
Yeah, you've gotten better.
I've gotten much better, haven't I?
Yeah, you're much better.
- One... - What are you doing? I want you to spot me.
Okay.
You're doing well. Put more into it.
What... What is this?
Are you... Are you staring at that man right now?
- No, no! - He's lying.
Excuse me, are you new here?
I'm really thirsty right now. Can I have some of your water?
- But I touched it with my mouth... - I'd be even more grateful then.
Get your mouth off of that!
Okay. Even though your love your girlfriend and your wife very much...
and your husband too!
You can't like that person every single day of the year unconditionally.
Your normally perfect lover and spouse...
When they all of a sudden don't seem as loving to you out of the blue...
What do you think of those situations?
Thank you Kang Hye Jung for your great acting.
Her acting was very realistic.
I think I was being too fierce with it.
Haven't you ever stolen glances at a woman, and been nagged or attacked for it?
I don't... steal glances. I just blatantly stare at them.
[Blatant stares at the women!]
[Man Shik's reenactment: Blatant stares!]
[His happiness he can't keep hidden.]
I can't believe I'm acting with Kang Hye Jung.
[The meeting of the two actors.]
What is it about?
I've gained so much weight lately.
I have to lose some weight.
- Honey, I have something to tell you. - What is it?
The truth is, I haven't told my parents I was dating you.
[His glance has changed its direction!]
I know this may make you feel bad...
[Same script, different feeling.]
- What are you staring at? - No, keep going.
- Are you even listening to me? - Of course.
[The sly gaze.]
I'm listening to everything you're saying.
[Exquisite acting wit his heavy lidded gaze.]
My dad keeps pushing me to go study abroad.
What is this?
Are you staring at that woman right now?
What are you doing? You're staring at another woman right now!
No, it's just because she's working out so hard...
Her form actually isn't good for her.
If she keeps that up, she's going to injure her hips.
[Worrying about someone else's hips.]
Just worry about me instead of worrying about others.
[Unable to get angry at the boyfriend.]
You got so angry at me earlier, why aren't you getting angry at him now?
Is it because you're afraid of me?
[Even though Man Shik is more scary...]
[Today, he's appearing to be more of the romantic guy.]
[Today's question!]
[When do you feel your love for your lover disappear?]
There are people who are married and people just in relationships.
It's a question that you really have to think about separately.
Whether it's your spouse or your lover, the moment your love for them drops.
- The moment your love disappears. - To put it in another words...
If they abstained from this act, you'd always feel love for them.
[If you'd just stop from doing this, I will always be able to love you!]
As for Park Ji Young and Kang Hye Jung, you both seem very happily married.
You two are very well-known for your happy marriages.
- You're still very happy, aren't you? - Yes, of course.
- How many years have you been married? - This is our 19th year.
[19 years of marriage.]
This is the first time I've even been praised over something like this.
- You must've married young. - Yes, I married young.
That was a very young and happy time in my life.
The truth is, I... How should I put this?
Her husband? I know him myself.
- Because we were in a drama together. - A sitcom.
It was called 'Hello My Love.'
- 'New York Story.' - Oops, it was 'New York Story.'
Hey, Hee Sun.
[She shouldn't have mentioned the title.]
We did the sitcom, 'New York Story' together, and he's so very handsome.
- Yes, he is very handsome. - Really?
Yes, so initially I thought a handsome producer...
earned himself a beautiful lady?
Earned himself?
No, it's because she and I are rather close.
Hye Jung and I, we go to the sauna together.
It must be nice for the two of you.
So they must know quite a bit about each other.
There's something I feel pretty good about.
[Huh?]
The reason being, I was wearing a robe and Hye Jung was completely naked.
And at that time, Hye Jung was...
- She was really... - I was too exposed.
Yes, she was in the middle of her bath session.
- That... - Don't imagine it in your head.
But why... Why would you think I'm imagining anything?
- No, I'm not. - You looked like you were.
So Kim Hee Sun saw everything that only her husband's seen.
[To say it like that...]
- But... if I had... - You saw everything.
I may have averted my gaze out of shyness.
But since she's so nice and honest, she just looked me in the eyes.
[A bow in the sauna!]
- Even all the dirt... - Deep enough bow for all the dirt to drop.
A 90 degree bow like this.
- Greeting me like that... - She really is nice!
[Explanation of Hee Sun's delicate situation.]
I've never heard such a filthy, yet an erotic story before in my life.
- Man Shik, you're Hye Jung's fan? - Yes, I'm a fan of hers.
When he was doing the reenactment earlier, he said it was an honor to act alongside her.
Saying how at last he was getting the chance to act alongside her.
Even if I get into an accident on my way home, I wouldn't have any regrets.
The reason being... This girl I used to date in the past...
I think she saw the movie, 'The Goal of Dating.'
We had broken up by then, but she ended up calling me.
She told me to go see the movie.
I told her maybe I'll see it another time.
Then she told me I had to go see it.
She said...
'There's a jerk in the movie who's just like you!'
[Is Jeong Man Shik the same as the role Park Hae Il plays in the movie?]
A lot of those scenes felt surreal to me.
She says, 'Why would we kiss when we don't even love each other?'
And the guy says, 'Why do we need to love each other just to kiss?'
We don't need to love each other, but just like each other to kiss.
[Is Man Shik the bad guy?]
- Do you have a woman you're dating? - Yes, I'm dating someone.
[Currently has a girlfriend.]
Everyone's expression is saying, 'Oh, what a relief!'
And Suk Chun, do you have a guy that you're currently dating?
No, I don't have anyone.
I wish I was dating.
Since the topic of this conversation is dating.
But the truth is, I give a lot of advice about dating.
Whether it's a man or a woman, they all seem to come and ask me questions
and a lot of them come to me to ask me for my advice.
- I've asked him for advice before too. - Yes, you did.
We spent a month together in New York recently.
And I recently took my family to his restaurant recently...
I went there with my wife.
My wife talked to him for an hour straight.
And I didn't feel the least bit jealous.
And you and your wife ended up working things out.
The issue my wife and I were having, Suk Chun resolved all of them for us.
So Hong Suk Chun really does have a way when it comes to resolving conflicts.
He knows about men better than us, and he knows about women better than us too.
But even in dramas, Park Ji Young always plays a very charismatic characters.
She has a certain image for that.
But in reality, what kind of a wife are you?
I'm a cut and dry wife.
No, actually, when I'm at home... I tend to be very cute.
How so?
Why are you staring at me like that?
Just... With how I behave and the acts that I do.
So much so that even my children even wrote up a cute song for me.
With my family at home, I'm in charge of the cuteness.
- I have two daughters. - How old are your daughters right now?
They're 16 and 13 years old.
[A mother to two daughters.]
- How do you... - Well, the thing is...
While I'm having a conversation with my kids
I have a talent for coming up with new words, and shortening them and such.
You know how at time even in the middle of an argument
you can say something like, 'This is so dal-ssam-sse-bitt.'
- What was that? - What does that mean?
It means, swallow it if it's sweet, but spit it out if it's bitter.
[A play on words with the phrase.]
[Almost on par with the teenagers in the way she speaks!]
I guess the generation gap kind of took a reverse in that household.
- That's so dal-ssam-sse-bitt. - I know, isn't it?
It almost sounds like a curse word.
[Sounds like a fun life with her kids.]
- That's surprising. - Another word is, 'katuri.'
What's that?
Do you know the 'katuri song?' What am I saying right now...
[Yes, we are aware of that song...]
Whenever I'm feeling a little down, I watch it on YouTube.
For some reason, that song tends to make me feel happier.
But because I don't like to say no to my kids too often...
In the song, there's a part where the word is repeated over and over...
So when I say to them, 'It's katuri,' they know that I'm saying no to them.
So I use the song in that sense too.
- Show us! - Show us how the song is done!
[Cheerful opening to the katuri song!]
[A celebratory atmosphere!]
[Park Ji Young's breaking out her moves!]
[She succeeds at throwing up the mike in the air and catching it!]
[Kids, this means, 'No, no!']
[A refreshing actress, Park Ji Young.]
Okay, as of this moment...
The moment the love you for your lover or spouse drops.
Guess the number one answer people gave of those surveyed from teens to 50s.
Yes, let's start with Hye Jung.
Whenever we fight, we fight without thinking of reconciling afterward.
So you're fighting to the bitter end?
We're basically saying, either you die or I die first.
We actually really like playing games.
When we play games, we both are serious about winning.
- You look like you would be like that. - Without either of you giving in?
Yes, and even though we're not playing the game for money or anything...
We still want that feeling.
So we use my husband's music sheets to write down the score as if it's money.
Writing down how much we're going to bet...
So we decide on the details, and write them all down.
For example, we could be playing the monkey drop game or something.
We've gotten into a fight... while playing bingo.
We like to play all sorts of games.
You know the game where you play for land? Claiming land for yourself.
We tell each other not to touch certain land because we're claiming it.
A game where you stake your own territory?
I usually win the games.
So you win most of the games?
Even though you're not playing with real money?
You still say...
Remember when we used to say things like how someone owes you a million won?
Yes, we say things like that.
- How much did you get up to? - We've gone up to 8.9 million won.
We've gone up to 8.9 million won.
I won the 8.9 million won.
I'd ask him if he has it to give it to me, and he'd argue that he had the money.
[They sound like so much fun!]
And he wants to squander all that away in a single play.
So he'll suggest that we go all in with the next game and bet 8.9 million won.
So we played it by going all in.
And he played the game with his teeth clenched super tight.
So I just let him win, and lost the game to him.
So you lost to him on purpose?
And he kept thinking to the end that he won on his own.
So I replied a bit sarcastically.
'Yes, you won. You were good, Honey.' When I said it like that...
'Then why does your expression look like that?'
'I did win the game. Did you throw the game for me?'
'You can't throw the game!'
And he started getting angry.
So I said, 'I didn't throw the game, and you won it. We're even on 8.9 million.'
[A couple with such an entertaining life.]
If you're going to let him win, you have to let him win.
You can't upset him like that in the end.
- That'd make him feel even worse. - We were both feeling worse by it.
You have to act like you're angry that you lost the game.
But if you act like it was no big deal...
[When there's a fierce competition over something petty and insignificant.]
[Fail]
[Not on the list]
In my opinion, even when I first met my husband
I first was attracted to him because of the way he smelled.
- Like... - What did he smell like?
He smelled like soap.
You know that soap that's attached to the stick in the washrooms.
The big soap in the showers of all the broadcasting stations.
He had just washed his face with it and the scent was so nice
that I... ended up marrying him. But...
That smell...
These days, instead of that soapy smell...
You know that burp smell after eating fermented mussels and makgulli?
I hate that smell more than the smell of a fart.
That rotten food smell?
You know that burp, right?
From deep within the belly...
[That really is stinky!]
My husband and I...
- Do you fart in front of each other? - Yes, of course.
I haven't done in front of him yet.
- You haven't farted yet? - Even as an accident?
When my husband goes to the bathroom, he still turns the water on.
- He's extremely clean. - Really?
- How many years have you been married? - It's been seven years now.
When your husband goes to the bathroom just to even urinate...
But I do it. It's just my husband who doesn't fart.
I'll fart on my own when I'm alone.
You're really self-educated.
[Hee Sun working hard to study on her own during those seven years?]
- He's cute. - But as for me...
There was a time when we both talked about this.
Are farts worse?
Or are burps stinkier?
[What worse? Farts of burps?]
But in my opinion, the more you smell it, farts can smell kind of pleasant.
After 19 years of marriage, that's the way you start to think.
But when my husband suddenly just burps in my face...
When that happens, any love or attraction I feel for him disappears right then.
My husband tends to be a very clean person in nature.
Because of his level of cleanliness, he's even nagged at me about some things.
But when he burps, that all flies out the window.
And for about three days after, I can't forget about it.
And especially because she fell for her husband because of his scent.
Yes, that's true.
In what ways is he very clean?
Even when we were first married
if I tried to get into bed wearing the same clothes I've been wearing around the house
he'd tell me to change into my pajamas.
[A husband who used to be so obsessively clean...]
It was just... whenever we made eye contact...
But even if a person is too clean, it could tend to be annoying.
But then when a person like that burps in front of me, then it's game over.
So the thing I always say to him is
'I don't care if your stomach isn't well.' There's no way I'd let that fly with me.
She's tough.
There's a friend I have who almost broke up over burping.
When they first started dating, while driving in the car...
You know sometimes when you get a knot in your stomach?
My friend experienced that. And it was a girlfriend of mine.
She kept holding it in, and it was middle of the winter too.
And all of a sudden, she burped in her mouth.
She started freaking out wondering what she could do.
So as soon as she burped, she sucked the air back in.
[Disgusting!]
[A shocking self-sacrifice?]
I can tell these ladies really are married ladies.
[Real and honest talk!]
All the ladies are being brutally honest today.
She was being so realistic with that.
So I'm wondering if it really is something that happened to a 'friend.'
Pretty recently, when it was really windy out, I wore one of those old lady caps...
[Did she really bring something?]
[Ta da!]
- That really is something. - I don't think I'm going to wear it.
But since she brought that on the show, we should let her try it out.
That's why I'm going to use it all sexy.
[When farting, burping and talk of periods comes from being too comfortable.]
[Fail]
[The answer came in at ninth place.]
- Suk Chun... - Yeah?
You just shot me, didn't you?
- I don't think it would affect Suk Chun. - That's what I feel.
- Why don't you shoot me? - I wonder if there'll be any affect.
[The skin on his head is dancing!]
I saw it!
Bend your head down.
Your procedure for the day is over...
Why don't you come back again in two days?
I'm sorry, sir.
That's so funny.
You know those things...
The things that men think are just a given?
The things that we think should be a given?
- That could be a problem. - Yes, I think it really can be.
I really like to give gifts.
I especially like to give purses as gifts.
I was taught that women really loves bags and shoes.
So I gave a girl a purse as a gift, but then I never saw her carrying it around.
It should be a given to use the gift.
But isn't there a reason why you give our those gifts?
[What's the purpose for giving out the gifts?]
I think I felt that I wasn't good enough for her or something.
If you felt that way, what were you trying to achieve?
I just wanted to earn her heart.
Because I was on the skinny side, and I wasn't measuring up to muscular guys
I think that's what I was thinking.
- Man Shik, do you often give out gifts? - I don't give out gifts very often.
But I... Take them shopping at times.
While shopping, I may have them try something on and buy it if it's nice.
And I buy it right there on the spot.
[If it's to his liking, he buys it right away as a gift.]
[Man Shik used to work as a shopping mall sales clerk.]
I know how to deal with those sales clerks.
Because he used to work as one.
[Man Shik's shopping past.]
Which department did you used to work at?
In the clothing department.
On my way home once... You know the traditional dresses?
There was a store I passed by once.
And the traditional dresses are fashionable enough for young people to wear these days.
For example, pants with suspenders?
- But it's a dress? - Yes, they're still dresses.
But those could be difficult to sell.
And they had them in black, which was died black with coal.
- But I bet those were pretty expensive. - Yes, they were.
Things like that are expensive.
I thought it was cute, so I asked how much it was.
And then I was told that it was 19 thousand won.
Because it's probably good for your health.
Basically coal pants? (Believed to be good for your health.)
I don't give out gifts easily
but a long time ago, on one of the White Days...
You know how people get gifts like stuffed animals for their significant other?
When the girls receive the stuffed animals, they'd open them all up...
[In case something else is inside?]
They rip it open when they get home, and realize it really was just the doll.
I've never once given out a gift like that before.
Rather than do something like that, I'd rather just give out a candy or something.
So I got a big empty ramen box...
and stuffed it full of all sorts of candy and cookies.
- Ugh, I'd hate that. - If you do that...
No matter how much you stuff in the box, if it's just candy...
[Just candy in the box is a no-no.]
How about the coal pants? Would you like the coal pants?
Are the coal pants good for blood circulation or something?
You seem interested.
- Is it just coals? - Yes.
- I was a little interested. - It's good for you.
- I thought it was for good circulation. - It's probably good for moisture reduction.
[Coal pants can be good for you...]
- So when you did that with the candy... - What sort of response did you get?
[His girlfriend's response to the box full of candy was?]
I didn't say anything to her at first.
Then while she went to the bathroom, what do you call it...
I wrapped up the box in newspaper.
I wrapped it up in newspaper
and I sprinkled some coffee on it.
So that it gives it that old-time feel to it.
[Antique?]
- Old-school feel? - You should've wrapped it with pretty paper!
[But the effort was still there!]
I really packed it in the box.
And if she seemed touched by it, I reply in a very cute way, 'You like it?'
[So cute!]
You can't be too obvious about wanting something either.
[When the person is being too obvious about wanting a gift.]
[Fail]
[The answer came in at 24th place.]
That gust is no joke. I guess everything is stuck tight on me.
Hye Jung, want to give it a try?
When my husband went out drinking with his friends
and he just totally went crazy out of control.
So I just stayed home and took care of the baby.
When he woke up in the morning, I was sitting out in the living room.
Because I was sitting out in the living room, he asked me if I was doing okay.
He asked me how I was doing, and just gauged my reaction.
So I responded by saying, 'Did you sleep well?'
So he felt relieved thinking I didn't know anything and he was okay.
He replied, 'Yeah, I slept well.'
So I asked him if he got home okay the night before.
So he responds, 'Yes, I got home okay. I think at about three AM?'
That's how he responded to me.
And then I responded by saying...
[Hye Jung staying real and saying everything that needs to be said.]
I should say that again. It's broadcast appropriate, right?
So I said, 'What a joke. You didn't get home at three AM!'
What a joke?
'I opened the door at six this morning to get the milk'
'and you were asleep on the front stoop.'
I told him sleeping like that is going to turn his mouth sideways
and that he should come inside right away.
And then I grabbed him up, and threw him on top of the bed.
And that's how he woke up in bed.
At times, men don't remember any of that.
Even knowing they're lying, they're so shameless about it.
Since he already lied to me about one thing
I don't believe him when he says he just went drinking with friends.
I think all men act like that when they drink.
My husband used to do things like that.
Back then, the house keys weren't like they are now with the number codes.
It was when my husband and I were both busy working on our careers.
The night before, we had a bit of a fight
because I went out for a third round. Didn't all the actors use to do that?
I'm talking about before you got married.
- Before getting married. - Third round would be a given.
But once I got married, I made a promise to my husband.
He said I was the first actress he ever met who went for a third round.
So when I told him everyone does it and he asked which neighborhood I was from.
So after that, at about two in the morning after I was done filming...
I came home, but my key wasn't working.
I started kicking the door when my neighbor came out.
So I started calling the house phone, and I could hear it ringing in the house
but no one was answering.
I thought, at that moment, he's trying to break up with me.
So I...
So I left the house.
I went over to my brother's where I used to live before I got married.
It turns out, in his drunken state
he locked the deadbolt.
Since he usually is the last person to come home at night?
So I just went to bed feeling pretty angry.
When I opened my eyes and woke up in the morning, my husband was there on his knees.
He was shocked himself. He woke up thinking I'd be home.
The deadbolt on the house was locked...
And that's when everyone used to have an answering machine at home.
It had a whole bunch of chaotic messages on it.
- The automatic answering machine. - With the tape, right?
Yes, and I used to have the music playing in the background of the greeting.
I like things like that.
[With a recorded greeting to match the mood of the music.]
[Many entertaining greetings on the answering machine!]
- So you record a greeting? - Yeah, you used to record it.
And we let people know what we're up to, just like Twitter these days.
Telling people where you go, and what you're up to.
I used to record all those greetings by myself.
And then when I'd go over the 30 seconds, and it'd beep at me, I'd do it over again.
Why are you crying right now?
[Is she shedding tears over memories of the past?]
- Because of your memories? - I'm just laughing.
I keep getting teary eyes too. Even when I'm just laughing.
This happens when you get older.
It happens to me too.
You start tearing up when you get older?
Even when you're happy, your eyes will tear up.
Are your feelings more...
No, it's not that. But your tear ducts are tightening up...
- Just naturally... - It just happens naturally.
- Yes, I think something weakens. - Yes, something happens.
So your tear ducts tighten up?
So my husband is there telling me he's sorry
and I had forgotten why he's apologizing to me.
- You forget things when you sleep. - You're right.
We're too simple.
We have to let it all out
but once that day passes, you forget why you felt angry.
So I asked him, 'What's going on?'
So he started saying how he drank too much and then I remembered.
Internally... you remembered.
You have to get back into your acting mode.
And then your breathing starts to...
Me?
But I usually can't get angry at things like that.
And especially over things that already happened.
So we both conceded at that time over our drinking.
Both of us.
I've agreed to stop at the second round.
And my husband pulled the deadlock off the door.
That's how we came to our agreement.
That's how we came to our agreement, and settled back into peace.
[And we're still living very happily.]
Habitually lying.
- Without changing the expression at all. - Being shameless about it.
- Being very shameless. - Shamelessly lying.
[Being very shameless about their lying.]
[First place answer for those surveyed in their 30s and 40s!]
30s and 40s both answered that as their top answer.
No matter who it is, they should be honest about it.
I went out drinking with some junior of mine.
And after some drinking, I realized that it was just me and four other girls.
So I told her the whole truth.
When asked how late I was out drinking, I told her I was out until four.
And I told her how much fun it was.
When I realize she's having a tough time with it, I just keep on talking.
And I just keep on talking and just glaze over it and make it insignificant.
That's a pro move.
When a pretty girl comes on TV and I'm asked what I think of her
no matter what, you just talk her down.
[Tell your woman the girl is ugly.]
'In reality, that girl is so weird! Don't you know that?'
Then my wife gets a smile on her face and asks just how weird she is.
Do you say things like that about me to her as well?
No, that's what I used to do.
Your wife doesn't ask if you think Kim Hee Sun is pretty?
She asks me how you are in real life, and I tell her you're prettier in real life.
- What a lie. - Cheers.
What about you, Man Shik?
A while back I had a friend who is very pretty and nice.
I wanted to date her, so I took her out to dinner.
And then she started asking the lady there
'What's good here?'
So the lady replied, 'Everything's good here.'
And most people just say yes, and let it go.
[But the woman that Man Shik was with...]
'Yeah, that's what everyone always says.'
[How rude!]
And the other time when the lady said everything is good
the girl I was with replied, 'No, it's not. The kimchee stew isn't good.'
She was blunt about it. Overtly blunt to the point of being rude.
I didn't think she'd be like that.
Yeah...
I lost all attraction for her.
There are some guests who come to my restaurant who complain over nothing too.
And even after that...
After she started eating her food, she complained about everything.
'Why does this taste like this?'
Ant the thing was, I'm sitting there enjoying my food.
- I'm sitting there eating... - She didn't care, did she?
And I'm thinking, 'She shouldn't be like that.'
And if things escalate a little bit, she'd start arguing with the owner.
Even though I should help her out, I don't help out with things like that.
But you should've said something to her.
'Get out.'
That's so manly.
- To your girlfriend? - To my girlfriend.
'Why does the food taste like this? You should've put some effort...'
Get out!
[Just one word to her rude behavior... 'Get out!']
When I said, get out...
She said, 'Why? I'm talking to her.' And I said, 'I said, get out.'
- Really? - Once I send her out of there...
I paid the tab and apologized for her behavior.
Then I'd leave the restaurant myself.
Then when the girl asks to go for a drink, I tell her I'm going to go home.
So I just go home.
Then I turn around as I'm walking away, and tell her to erase my number.
And just walk away.
- So you just ended it right then and there? - I haven't seen her since.
- To an elder... - Yes, that's wrong.
I really can't stand people behaving so rudely to an elder like that.
Being rude about how they treat employees at an establishment...
When I go out to a restaurant with my father
since he's a little bit older
my father will order the employees around in a casual tone.
- And he just orders them around. - But most elders behave that way.
But even though he's my dad
I tell him he shouldn't be speaking like that to people he's never met before.
But you speak to your dad in a casual tone, right?
- But the thing is... - It's what my dad prefers, all right?
What's it to you? My dad likes it that way.
And especially since I've worked at restaurants before myself...
I really can't stand seeing behavior like that.
It sounds like there isn't a job you haven't had before.
So when I order things, I order everything at once.
Like if I ate all the spinach and there's only a few pieces of kimchee left
I divide the rest of the pieces to the people I'm dining with to empty the plate.
What did you do when you had difficult customers while you worked at the restaurant?
I still smiled.
- You smiled? - I just kept on smiling.
I used to work at a grilled meat restaurant, and I worked the night shifts.
Yes, a place like that would get some tough customers.
Most customers were difficult.
Everyone who worked the nightlife scene would all come there late at night.
They all came in about hour and a half increments.
Before I worked at the restaurant, I used to work as a personal trainer
so I had pretty muscular arms.
- Wait, personal trainer... - Personal trainer?
[Just what kind of work haven't you done?]
From shopping malls to restaurants...
The grill pans were very heavy, but I'd carry them two at a time.
When the drunk customers would start complaining and act a little disorderly
they'd take one look at my arms and suddenly straighten up.
[Frightened by his muscles.]
And as I bring them what they needed, I smile at them slightly as I set it down.
- And as I set it down for them... - They'd see his arms.
So you're fighting with them mentally.
Even though I'm smiling at them, my eyes weren't smiling.
- Only my mouth would be smiling. - But with that deep voice of yours too...
I think if you told them to order everything, they'd have no choice.
Show them what your scary voice sounds like.
Even earlier when he said 'get out,' I almost really walked out of here.
I was so scared that I almost just walked out.
- Just how many jobs have you had? - Just of the ones I know so far...
- There are four or five already? - Okay, personal trainer...
- Shopping mall sales clerk. - I worked at an event company too.
What did you do at the event company?
I did all sorts of things. Sometimes, I blew up balloons...
- Or at times, I'd watch the kids... - Didn't the kids cry when they saw you?
[The kids may be scared of him?]
They didn't cry.
If anything, they listened very well. They'd concentrate on what I said.
Because they'd be afraid of him.
But I always said everything with a smile on my face.
I'd ask, 'Who's making all that noise?' Then the kids would be like...
[Avoiding his gaze.]
[Because even though they're young, they still know the basics?]
- Are you younger than me? - Yes, I was born in 1974.
1974?
[Suk Chun, who was born in 1971, is shocked by this revelation.]
Seriously?
- Yes. - My husband was born in 1974 too.
Then it means that you and my husband are same-aged friends?
[Why don't you two be friends as of today?]
Wow, this is crazy.
Shall we try out that answer?
[Behaving rudely to people you don't know.]
Okay, let's check the answer!
[First place answer amongst those surveyed in their teens!]
The teenagers...
On average, it's the teenagers who act rudely and are brutish.
We think it's them who'd treat the elders in an unacceptable manner.
But the thing that the teenagers find most unacceptable of their significant other...
is rude behavior.
I think I can guess the answer for those surveyed in their 20s.
- Answer the 20s? - Yes, the 20s.
When I'd go over to my friend's house to hang out with him...
since it's someone I'm close to, I'd know the layout of his house.
Then you suddenly notice that something is out of place.
The important thing about that is...
For example, when I open up the tissue container...
and I notice a brand of cigarettes that my friend would never smoke is in there.
- Things like that. - Little details.
Then you start to get suspicious about who was over the night before and such.
I think things like that is what's classified as obsession.
The reason being, when that friend comes over to my place
he always sweeps the floor with his hand.
He'd do a once over sweep of the floor with his hand.
Why?
Because there wouldn't be any hair strands at my house.
- That's so scary! - That really is scary.
- You two are the same. - My friend...
If he sweeps the floor once with his hand like this
any long strand of hair would show up on his hand.
- Then I'm totally caught. - But it could be your armpit hair!
[If your armpit hair is that long, you need to go on Star King.]
When it comes to obsession, there's obsessions that can be seen
or obsession that's disguised as something else.
Yes, there are obsessions that are disguised as caring.
If I was to become obsessive, I think I'd disguise it as something else.
When my husband and I first started dating
since we lived separately, I'd go over to his place to hang out.
Then I'd go into his bathroom saying I need to use it.
And as I'm there doing what I need to do, I can see his toiletries all lined up.
And I just picked up the items thinking I'd just clean out the things that are expired...
and then I'd notice toiletries that a man wouldn't need to use.
- That's right! - That's awesome.
- That's right. - Things like BB cream and such.
- And what else... - But he's a celebrity too.
Why would a hip hop artist need to use BB cream?
Even I don't use BB creams!
- You lie! - I use foundation instead.
[Even though she doesn't know if he uses the BB cream or not...]
When I found toiletries that women would mostly use...
I pulled only those things out of the bunch.
And as if they were never there, I'd pull those out separately.
- Thinking I should throw them out... - Did you use them yourself?
I put them in a closet drawer.
- Who's closet? - So that you could find out?
So that he couldn't find them?
Why?
- Subtly telling him you saw them? - Yes.
I was telling him that I saw them.
So when I'd go change my clothes, I can casually ask him what those things were.
Then that's when you tell him how much you love those products and start using them.
- And put them all over your face. - Then put them back in the bathroom?
But since his stylist comes to his house to do his hair and makeup
she had just left them behind to use later on.
- Does he still use the same stylist? - No.
Did she quit after he got married?
I bet that's when she quit.
She quit once he got married.
I heard your husband was very obsessive before you two got married.
My husband? No, that was me.
- Who liked the other person more? - I liked him more.
As you've talked about before, I usually tend to pick the ones I like.
You have to like the person?
As you know, there are a lot of people who like me.
[Explosion of self-confidence!]
But the important thing is who's the person I like.
Back in the day, Park Ji Young was so popular amongst our age group.
- In the early 90s... - Yes, she was.
[Even her costars were top stars- Jo In Sung and Won Bin.]
[Yes, I was pretty popular.]
- She was the best. - And now?
When you like the person...
Do you make that person work for it, or do you approach the person first?
I did.
[Park Ji Young confessed first!]
When the filming was over...
You did a program together, right? He was the Assistant Director?
Yes, it was when we did a sitcom.
- The 'Five Docs.' - Yes, it was a sitcom.
He used to be behind the set giving out the cues all the time.
He'd say 'Cue', and we'd start. Then I'd ask...
'What are you doing today?'
[Putting her moves on him during filming!]
Then he'd start stuttering and say, 'I'm going home after we're done.'
And then when we'd change the set...
'What are you doing on Sunday?'
- Really? - Yes.
While in the middle of the set...
you say, 'Now we'll bring on our next guest.'
And when they are ushering people out, the two of you...
Since we can't hear anything, we'd just be staring at the directors.
- The reason being... - That's the advantage of being the director!
And if we're not happy about something, we'd just stare at their hands.
But if we like what's going on, we'd stare him them in the eyes.
My husband said that I was going to stop what I was doing.
He thought I was joking, and that I was just teasing him.
Since it was a time when I was really busy, and I was doing pretty well in my career.
But that wasn't the case.
When I asked him what he was doing on Sunday, he said he was just going to stay home.
When I asked him what he was going to be doing
He was just going to sleep.
And once the filming got wrapped up, he started walking away.
So when I asked him where he was going, he said he was heading home.
So when I asked him where he lived, he said he lived in Bangbaedong.
I said, 'That's where I live too!' Even though I didn't live there.
I lived in Kangwondong, but he wouldn't get in my car.
So for the next several weeks, over and over, I told him
'I'm not going to eat you, so why don't you get in?'
But those assistant directors really have to work hard and do a lot of work.
Their position doesn't make it easy for them to appear cool.
- Seeing them doing all that grunt work... - But that's what I liked.
Like his soapy smell, and...
I don't easily have my feelings swayed by anyone, or actors.
I always use honorifics, and very mannerly. Aren't you like that too?
- Yes. - You're right.
Even though this is about before you got married...
But when you made up your mind that you liked someone, have you...
- Yes, I always chose. - And did you always succeed?
Well...
[How... should I answer this?]
In situations like that, there needs to be confidence.
In all honesty, I wasn't thinking of marriage.
But since he kept staying aloof
It piqued curiosity and brought out my competitiveness.
But then... we started dating.
And I...
You have to be more detailed about things like that!
I was about to go abroad to start shooting a different drama.
And my husband brought me a book.
And he said... 'I think I need to seriously start thinking about marrying you.'
And then he handed me the book.
And it was a booked called 'Speculation from Jail' by Shin Young Bok.
So when I saw that book, I thought he meant to cage me in!
- And I was so happy... - You were happy?
No, it's because I didn't know what that book was about.
I didn't know what it was about back then.
I thought he meant that he wanted to cage me in a cell of his love or something.
He were just thinking what you wanted.
So I started thinking about his proposal then.
So when I read the book on the plane, I realized it really was a book about jail.
I barely started reading the book before I threw the book aside.
I asked him why he gave me the book.
He said it was a book he loved and hoped I liked too.
That's why I don't really like the word 'obsession.'
I believe love needs to be healthy.
You actually reside in Vietnam right now, don't you?
It's been about eight years now.
What do you do there?
My husband quit the director position and works in broadcasting.
Yes, in Hoachimin.
This is the first time I've heard how you two got married.
[Ji Young's happy family.]
We'll now check the answer.
[There's a limit to liking a person. Obsession can be scary.]
[The answer came in at 13th position.]
- Are you mad at me about something? - No.
No... I'm asking if you're mad at me over something right now.
There she goes again. She's starting to reenact something.
- Was that a hint? - Yes, she was giving a hint.
- I was giving a hint. - What?
How could you say something like that to me?
To me... To me... You're saying that to me right now?
Because you're...
- How could you get mad at me over this? - I know!
Without even thinking about how they could've wronged you
they only think about the wrong that's been done to them.
- Let's check the answer. - Let's check!
[His answer is the number one answer of those surveyed in their 20s!]
Always looking to blame others.
The kids who are rude in their teens always grows up to be like that.
When the kids who are rude in their teens grows up to be like that in their 20s.
- What about the 30s? - When they get to be in their 30s...
they take what they've learned thus far and shamelessly lie about everything.
Man Shik, can you act it out for us?
[Act out the scenario from the teenage years to 40s!]
[Kwang Hee will act the role of a server at a restaurant.]
The pizza and the drinks are very good here.
The pizza wasn't good last time.
The veggie pizza is very good.
Forget it. Just give me the beef pizza.
Then I finished eating the pizza.
How was your meal?
I just ate it because I was hungry.
[Such realistic rude behavior!]
Okay, you're in your 20s now. You two are lovers.
Lovers? Am I still the mannerless brat?
[Since you're such a great actor...]
You two are lovers, and he's very late.
Why are you so late? Everyone's been waiting forever.
Okay.
What the heck? What do you mean,'okay?' Hurry up and apologize to them.
Why are you telling me to do that now?
You're embarrassing me.
They've been waiting all this time because of you!
I'll take care of it later. Why are you telling me to do it now?
Seriously...
You think I'm just a normal person off the streets?
[What great acting!]
You think I was out playing?
I was greeting everyone onstage before I came here.
[Making all affection for him disappear with his rude behavior during the fight.]
And that's how that fight would end.
How about acting as a married couple now?
- Is it my turn now? - You've met your match now.
Wow, my range in acting is pretty broad.
This is when you start to act shameless after lying yourself.
You told me you went on a business trip, but I don't think that's the truth.
Someone told me they saw you at a cafe in Daejeon.
What are you talking about?
I was in Gwangju.
- What do you mean Daejeon? - But that's not what you told me.
No, I told you Gwangju.
[His expression is priceless!]
His expression is the best!
- No, you said you were going to Daejeon. - No, I said I was going to be in Gwangju.
- Then I'm mistaken? - Yeah.
So this is how it plays out.
[This is when the person loses all sense of affection for the other person!]
All the details that you include in there...
You know this thing he does... Shaking his head like that.
- His way of expressing himself. - I can be cute about things too.
[Cute acts in front of his seniors?]
When the older ladies not me not to open my eyes like that, I'd say, 'Okay'.
[Cute enough to take a bite out of him!]
Are there times when you feel disrespected?
Over food.
- Yes, that could happen. - I can get greedy over food.
I admit that about myself.
What I mean is... I like things that are really good.
Have you ever done a second round with dinner outings?
I've done a second round with dinners. Reason being, the first place wasn't good.
Yes, that's happened to me before.
So my husband says to me... Why it is that I eat again
as soon as I set the spoon down. I eat again right after I eat.
When it comes to eating, I know what I like.
When my husband would make himself ramen
there was a time when I got really upset over that.
Instead of putting rice in the broth once all the noodles are gone
I boil the rice in the broth afterward.
Like porridge?
So you cook the broth again with the rice in it?
Yes. So I take the noodle out of it first.
Because don't you think the best part of any meal
is the rice you mix in the sauce after everything's been eaten?
- Doesn't everyone agree on that? - That's a good point.
So I boil my rice in the broth afterward, and then my husband...
he compared what I was making to dog food.
That's what he compared it to.
When he said that, it really upset me.
And I ultimately got very angry over that.
And then we had to go over to my in-laws.
You know how you cook all the food during the holidays?
And then he threw all the food in one pot and cooked it together calling it a stew.
- He calls it a stew! - When I saw that...
That was the first time I've ever seen anything like that!
So I said something to him about that.
That really looks like dog food.
[The wife's counterattack succeeds!]
So then...
So that's how we came to a truce.
We tried each other's dishes
and we've come to learn to like each other's quirky tastes.
But there have been several times when I got upset because of food.
Now that we're talking about this, do you have any special recipes?
Any special ways you cook certain dishes you'd like to tell us about?
- Something simple. - One thing I'd like to recommend is...
When you put sesame oil in soy sauce and let it sit for too long, it can go bad.
So when I make meals...
You know the small kid's dishes?
I know that plastic is used a lot these days, but I really prefer stainless steel.
In that stainless steel dish, I put a little of the soy sauce
with a little bit of extremely fermented soy sauce with a little bit of anchovy.
- Dried anchovy? - Yes.
I put the anchovy in there, and add some hot pepper in it too.
And I steam the sauce. I use the steam from when the rice is cooking.
I usually always find some use for the water that I use to wash the rice in.
It adds to the flavor of the soy sauce, and mellows it out.
When you do that, even if the sauce is kept a long time
the sauce doesn't thicken, and the taste doesn't change either.
But the soy sauce that you make with sesame oil in it needs to get thrown out.
- When you mix it into the rice? - Yes.
You can mix it into the rice, or you can put it into seaweed wraps too.
That sounds good.
That's the one thing I'd like to tell you, and it's also mentioned in my book as well.
But it gives it a different taste.
But if the soy sauce is very good
even if all you have is a bowl of bean sprout rice or some rice with beans
that's all you need to have a great meal.
That's the art of Korean cuisine.
I've been watching your profile as you've been talking this whole time...
But inside your lower lip, saliva keeps pooling in there.
Because I'm getting hungry right now.
What about you, Hee Sun?
- I'm a good cook. - I'm sure you are.
Out of all the dishes you've had at home so far
which one do you think is the best that your house lady cooks for you?
[I told you, I'm a good cook...]
Or any dish that you wish she'd never cook again?
I'm very good at making donkatsu curry.
Is it the one minute microwave curry?
[That's not right!]
You seem to have a lot of misunderstandings when it comes to me.
But when I make my curry, I even add apple jelly and milk.
I even cut the potatoes and carrots into nice round shapes so it looks pretty.
- So that it looks like little balls? - The rounded little shapes?
Like the shape of the chestnuts that you find in the galbi jjim.
I cut it up into shapes like that.
And even with the donkatsu
I buy the bread and make the breadcrumbs out of it myself.
And I dip it in the flour and the egg wash too.
- So you do it the right way. - You are a good cook.
- When's the last time you made that? - When I first got married?
[The important thing is that you cared...]
When you first get married, like Hee Sun says, it's following the recipes.
That's how all the girls who can't cook go about making their meals.
The books don't really include shortcuts on how to go about with the preparations.
Doesn't it make you about five hours to make it like that?
When I made that curry, there wasn't even any room to set foot inside that kitchen.
[Kitchen became a war zone!]
It's a curry party.
As for me, I personally really like fried eggs.
I like it sunny side up.
So I flip it over gently and just cook the outsides slightly.
But when I'm ready to eat it, I gently scoop out the egg yolk.
When you do that, the yolk is resting inside your spoon.
So I'll pick up the egg whites with my chopsticks and dip it in the yolk like sauce.
While having a glass of beer with it.
- That's very unique. - It's so delicious!
Do you have a special dish you like to cook, Hye Jung?
I'm actually a pretty decent cook.
But I really don't like to cook.
I think I got really sick of it.
Since I was a pretty good cook, people made me do it too much.
[Eating is better than cooking!]
What's your favorite dish to cook?
People actually really like the curry I made too.
I guess everyone makes good curry?
[The curry chef a little upset by this new revelation?]
This is turning into a curry war.
But I put something different in there too.
If I put sweet potatoes in there and add it to thicken the sauce
it rids the curry of all that sharp and strong taste.
And it really softens up the sauce. It's a little unique.
I really enjoy a nice cup of coffee after a nice meal.
And when you put in a grain or two of the bigger sea salt in the coffee
That coffee tastes so much better!
- It deepens the taste? - You didn't know that?
- In Americanos and espressos? - Yes.
The best is...
Two scoops of coffee, two scoops of sugar, and two scoops of cream or milk...
- In the Korean style coffee? - Korean style coffee.
Then that cup of coffee
tastes like the best cup of coffee.
This very famous barista in Italy, who's really famous for his skills
came to our country, and tried a sip of that bar coffee
and said it was the best coffee that he's ever tasted.
He said he was shocked by the taste.
Kwang Hee, do you have any recipes?
- Anything you Idols cook in the dorms? - Instant rice is the best.
[Simple and filling is the best!]
So now all we have left is the top answer for those surveyed in their 50s.
Being compared to others
and being constantly brought down.
And being disrespected in that way.
Have you ever been compared to someone else?
For example, since I don't have any hair...
So you know those people with really great hair and pretty hairstyles?
And when the person next to me asks me if I think their hair is a work of art.
Even though it was just a passing comment?
And I can tell when they suddenly realize that I don't have any hair myself.
Making passing comments about my insecurities or my complexes.
Moments like that can be very hurtful to me.
You don't get compared, do you?
Now that we're a little older, and we've been together for a while, it does happen at times.
My husband used to have a lot of hair.
I've never had very thick hair
whereas my husband's always had thick hair, and had very thick eyebrows.
So when he used to work at SBS
he was even nicknamed as Park Chan Ho of SBS.
- That's right, he did. - He was so good looking.
But one day out of the blue, I noticed he started getting a widow's peak.
[With the passing of time, his hair started thinning out.]
So without even realizing it, I'll point out certain things to him.
[Suddenly noticing a mole that used to be hidden by all the hair on his head!]
- You just noticed his mole? - I noticed it after 15 years.
It's actually a sad story.
If you start getting the widow's peak in your 20s, it makes you feel better.
I see, there's an 'M' up there. Makes sense, since my name is Man Shik.
- M for M... - You were in a drama called, 'M,' right?
Ever since I was little, I had thin hair with a wide forehead.
And when I was a baby, my hair was a very light color like Hee Sun's hair.
That's how light my hair used to be.
I had the heavy double eye lids, with a high bridged nose...
so people thought I was a mixed baby.
People used to say that about me when I was little too.
Being compared to someone else's husband can make a man feel bad...
How about you try out your answer? What is your answer?
[Being compared to others.]
[First place answer for those surveyed in their 50s!]
When people get into their 50s, many people end up retiring
and many people end up finishing their careers.
In truth, it could be a sobering time.
And when the person closest to you starts to compare you to others
it can really be a painful thing.
Like being told to go work out when you just came home from the gym.
Or when you came back from sweating at the gym... 'Why are you working out?'
There's something I like to do first when I get to the gym because it feels good.
You know that vibrating belt?
[The relaxing belt massager?]
I waited in line for that.
When it comes to that machine, you have to get in line for it.
I even do it on my neck. I think I do it for like 20 minutes.
All the people that uses those belts do the same thing.
[Scratch! Scratch!]
- It makes your skin itch? - No, it tickles.
[The vibration from the belt can be very ticklish!]
Everyone from their teens to their 50s...
As long as these behaviors are avoid, for a very long time to come...
you can receive love and affection from your lovers and your spouses.
Let's all keep that in mind!
You have something even stronger?
[It can't get any more real than this!]
And the person is... Park Ji Young!
Why did you have to call me out?
I just wished that all of it was just a dream.
[Revealing all their never-ending real secrets!]
You're really something.
- You just wait until I get there... - I shouldn't have picked it up.
Hey. You're better than Kim Hee Sun!
[MC Hee Sun's straight talk on the loose once again!]
[In a nationwide survey, please show us what you're really feeling!]